...menjawab 10 soalan...

artikel ini saya dapati daripada pautan dinding halaman sosial sahabat saya, saudari Salwa...lalu saya kongsikan pula pada halaman sosial saya di sini --> 10 soalan sebelum meminang

makanya, ini adalah jawapan-jawapan yang saya temukan ketika ini...

saya masih taaruf...

saya kasih pada seorang insan yang sama...

saya tidak perlu ada sebab untuk itu...

hanya Allah jualah Yang Maha Mengetahui...

genap sepuluh hari telah berlalu...sementelah saya diberitakan oleh F tentang pencarian yang sesuai...

menurut F, bkn sbb dia x suke aliza, tp dia x cinta...

apa kata saya yang degil? oohh, hadirlah dengan ikhlas...insyaAllah...

aliza senang sendiri...kembali kepada fitrah manusia, ya, saya mohon agar kekasih saya Yang Satu, pertemukanlah saya dengan kekasihMu jua...

saya memilih insan ini...pada ketika ini...

apa adanya...saya tidak faham...insan ini pun tidak faham...

ayuh, marilah menjawab soalan -

Soalan 1: Apakah wawasan hidup saya?
Bersederhana (wasatiah) dalam menjalani kehidupan, berusaha mencari keredhaan Ilahi untuk menuju kebahagiaan hakiki di akhirat sana...berkasih sayang ke Syurga...

Soalan 2: Bagaimanakah kefahaman saya mengenai konsep perkahwinan?
Perkahwinan adalah suatu ibadah yang menjuruskan diri saya beserta pasangan saya dalam merealisasikan wawasan hidup...(wawasan hidup saya seperti tertera di atas)

Soalan 3: Apakah sifat-sifat yang digemari dan tidak digemari saya?
Dengan sedaya upaya saya, saya menjaga hubungan sesama makhluk...ada kemungkinan sifat yang digemari saya tidak digemari orang-orang lain dan begitulah juga sebaliknya...bergantung kepada situasi, tindakan dan amalan saya adalah berlandaskan niat yang sedia tulus...sila terima saya seadanya...dan saya menerima kamu seadanya juga...

Soalan 4: Apakah pandangan saya mengenai anak pada tahun pertama perkahwinan?
Anak-anak adalah permata kesayangan cinta hati, anugerah daripada Allah Maha Pencipta lagi Maha Pemurah...Anak merupakan rezeki dan amanah utama, penyambung zuriat yang bakal mendoakan kesejahteraan setelah kita dikembalikan kepadaNya...saya tidak menolak rezeki kurniaan Allah...nama-nama anak-anak pun dah ready dah,OK...

Soalan 5: Adakah saya mempunyai masalah kesihatan dan kecacatan?
Ya...saya ada khilafnya namun saya tetaplah sebaik-baik sempurna ciptaanNya, cukup bagi saya...saya berikhtiar sekadar kemampuan...alhamdulillah...syukur...nikmat sihat...saya masih boleh berdikari...sila terima saya seadanya juga...untuk ini...

Soalan 6: Adakah saya seorang yang suka bergaul?
Saya mengelak untuk tidak berkawan...Saya bersahabat kerana Allah...Saya tidak berhak untuk mengadili...Saya tidaklah anti sosial tetapi saya memilih keramaian yang saya hadiri...Saya senang sekali melayan kerenah segenap generasi...kerana itu, saya sifatkan hidup saya berwarna-warni...yeay...

Soalan 7: Bagaimana hubungan saya dengan ahli keluarga saya?
Saya masih mempunyai mama dan abah yang menyayangi...Saya dan keluarga asas saya sangat sangat sangat sangat sangatlah rapat...keluarga kembangan pula pelbagai ragamnya...saya cenderung mesra dengan keluarga sebelah mama...saya amat sayang, berkorban segalanya demi keluarga...ohh...yaa...welcome to the family...hehe..

Soalan 8: Apakah kegemaran saya dan bagaimana saya mengisi waktu lapang saya?
Saya gemar memasak, saya gemar makan, saya gemar menulis, saya gemar berlari, saya gemar berjalan-jalan, saya gemar bercuti, saya gemar memandu Ryan, saya gemar menyanyi, saya gemar permainan intelek (sudoku, catur, karom, congkak, Monopoly, UNO, Scrabble, Reversi, Bejeweled Blitz, Tetris)...di waktu lapang, saya mengaji dan membaca...saya kurang menonton TV- saya lebih suka mendengar muzik...

Soalan 9: Adakah saya aktif dalam mana-mana pertubuhan bukan kerajaan (NGO) atau pertubuhan kebajikan?
Ya...saya tidak hidup sendiri...dan saya tidak minat berpolitik (sila ambil perhatian)...

Soalan 10: Apakah pandangan saya sekiranya ibu bapa masuk campur dalam urusan peribadi atau urusan rumahtangga saya?
Alhamdulillah, setakat ini urusan peribadi saya di atas tangan saya sendiri dengan budi bicara mama dan abah...saya tidak terbeban dengan itu...hurmm...urusan rumahtangga, biarlah ketua keluarga - bakal suami saya yang bertanggungjawab sepenuhnya...mama dan abah serta bakal mentua saya berhak mendidik dan memberikan nasihat apabila perlu, tetapi kamilah yang mencorakkan kerukunan dan kebahagiaan mahligai perkahwinan kami...aminnn...

futnut: saya belum pergi kursus kahwin lagi ni...Yulie, Anna, Nadh dan DGAs yang berkenaan - jom jejommm...dekat Setiawangsa tu...

...kenape U kurang ajar sangat?!!...

that accusation makes me shed my tears at Abie upon returning to claim Laura before we headed to USV Police Station to lodge our report...

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the story (my side):

after heated arguments and (obviously) no one would sided up with this arrogant, Not-Nice-Guy (N2G), he then pointed his right index finger at my nose and yelled out:

Buat ape I nak bayar?!! Kenape U kurang ajar sangat?!! U kurang ajar dulu. U tampar cermin kereta I.

yess, you heard me...i mean, all of you read as I actually "slapped" that N2G's car window...

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on one fine, Sunday evening - all Abie, Afnan and me wanted were just to have a happy dinner at the new Emp Plaza...we decided to go there as it will be our first time visiting there...ah, well - just to check out new hangout places...

we expected crowds (Sunday evening kan?!!) and so the parking hunt will be challenging...yeay...fine...

alhamdulillah, we spotted a parking spot...

ultimate parking ethics: give signal so that people notice that you've already 'chup' that spot - DONE!

Abie then reversed Laura to give way for the previous car parker to move, and we waited at the side...

suddenly, this N2G's car came and overtook our spotted parking...

Die tak nampak kot...Biar aku turun cakap...

I left Laura and went to tap that N2G's car window...I tapped (as knock knock) not "slapped" and using simple sign language, I try indicating this N2G that we've been waiting and I would like to claim our 'chup' spot, so, would you please reverse back your car?!!

this arrogant N2G not even acknowledge my presence and he just ignored me...N2G remained in his car together with 2 other ladies and a child...

feeling such a waste of time arguing with typical rude, uncivilised people, I went back and returned inside Laura...I was about to suggesting Abie in finding another parking space...when...

out of nowhere, that N2G came running and gave a hard, one-time front kick at Laura's LH side mirror...Laura's LH side mirror was immediately broken and tossed lifeless at the side...Not enough with that, this N2G went further to kick once more at the front bumper while cursing ugly words...I can't really decipher them as we're quite shocked upon his aggressiveness...

luckily, Afnan (who sat in his car seat didn't have any trauma - Abie and me hope so...insyaAllah)...Afnan at the time was still busy with WordWorld and his bottle of milk (a fresh one I made while we were parking hunt)...sungguh laa t*lol N2G ini...

Abie quickly stopped Laura next to that N2G's car and went out to confront him...By this time, a security guard came as our witness...I stayed inside Laura calming Afnan and watched the whole scene...The N2G was 'menegakkan benang basah'...

As Afnan already finishes his milk, Abie went to fetch him out...Feeling that Laura was blocking others, I took hold of her and went to park a little bit up ahead (Abie was still arguing with N2G, 2 more security guards came and one of the ladies came out trying to get hold of N2G telling him to 'Sudahlah, sudahlah')

Next thing I know, that N2G went inside his car, reversed it and headed to the 'Exit'...

I went to where Abie and Afnan and others...

Ape die cakap, Bie?!!

Ape ko bole buat?!! Repotlah polis...Dieorang takkan bole buat ape punye...

Aku cakap laa kat die - Hey, bende ni takkan jadi kes polis kalau kau tak sepak sidemirror aku...

And hey, why bother to escape?!! Come on laa, be a man!!!

We gave the N2G car details to the many security guards...

Alhamdulillah, they managed to get hold of that N2G at the 'Exit' route...

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We parked Laura just behind that N2G's car...

and this time, I followed Abie to face this N2G...this was where that N2G blamed me as 'kurang ajar' (please scroll back up if you lost track)...

with that, together we went to USV Police Station...thanks Farah for guiding us...N2G seemed to be running away...

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at the USV Police Station, N2G excused himself telling that he wanted to send his family back home and will return to lodge his own report later...we went through all the necessary procedures...

and guess what, since the event location is classified under different areas of coverage, we were told that we need to shift our case to SV Police Station...

and why can't you people just transfer the report online?!

Prosedurnye memang macam ni Cik...

(aduh...s*ngalnye sistem...aku bayar cukai tau...)

Angah came to the rescue and we gave Afnan to be brought home...thanks Angah...

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and once again, we called Farah for direction to SV Police Station...

at SV Police Station, a cop escorted us directly to meet Tuan M...again, we recorded our report...

we then need to wait for Laura's damage to be captured by the assigned police photographer...outside was raining quite heavily...we have to wait for that, first...

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all in all, it took us 3.5 hours to settle the matter (from 7pm until 1030pm)...

hungry?!! yupp...we were already bloated by then...we went around and found ourselves lining at SS McD's Drive-Thru...

Abie had her Iced Milo and Fries...I just love my Chocolate Hot Fudge Sundae...

we reached our home safely at midnight...alhamdulillah...

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tomorrow, heh....today already...(bile aku nak tido ni?!!)

Abie will have to EL...and I actually signed up for a class (thus, in accidentally, I've excused myself to be MIA once in a while)...

ohh, what a day...we'll be sending Afnan to Raniya...and get Laura settle down...

doakan same-same OK...thank you all :)

...kacak dengar sini...

...the joy of mengapit...

saya sukaaaaa....

saya cantikkk.......

thanks a bunch to Farah and Fendi...

a great honor...truly...

love both of you to bits...

my 1st mengapit story - in Grik --> tried my every might to recall but i've lost the link to that post (wayyyyy back in 2006)...it should be a Blogger account too (the one before I switched to Friendster's and I changed my mind again...)

hurmmm...anyway, at that time - it was lovely Asni's (the very first Sohabat 9600's wedding)...
she's wearing Red and i'm in Purple - a weird combination....hahahahaha...and bestman in Green...but, wedding in kampung is sooo different as compared to bandaran wedding...i'm referring to the type of very ulu kampung like Asni's hometown...to whoever has come to Grik, then you'll know...we had no proper water supply...and we had to do all chores with the 'bukit' water...

hey, I enjoy every moment of it...we did everything...ourselves...everything consists of many many many things...including best part...to me.....is cooking....

lauk kampung OK....we had 'umbut' pisang as the main dishes...and ikan sungai....
Bearbear, still remember?!!

and no fancy canopies here....we had bangku kuda2 and long tables aligned...and to arrive to the wedding event, people had to riskily parked their vehicles by the roadside and climbed up the hillslope...high heels?!! definitely, a NO NO...

next mengapit story is here --> Abieku kawen

about 4.5 months before Abie's big day, me laying on bed 14C, Teluk Intan GH's ladies' ward:

tak kire ape pun terjadi, aku pengapit kau tau Abie

thanks for rushing to the scene...will never forget that...(Abie and fiancee Adip, Beebee, Suzie, Azwa and Farah Hannan) <-- and korang sume dh kawen dh sekrg....except for my Bee is soon-a-bride-to-be...silelah doakan saya....aminn... yeay...and we survived...Allah loves me...i recovered just...in time... finally, kisah Farah... in early August: Aliza, jadilah pengapit aku

whoaaaaa....mane ko kenal aku ni?!! hehe...

yess...terime kasih...hatiku besar sangat...aku pakai kaler ape?

mestilaa aku biar ko pilih kaler ko suke

baby pink please...baby pink...yeay...

alright dear, aku pakai grey silver ngan pink jugak...

and so, i just realized me and Farah had soooooo a long long memory...

we've been friends in UTP...we're chemyan...

we're comics freak - used to read Budak Getah, Hunter X Hunter...ingat Luffy tak Farah?!!

and we love Japanese dramas - time tu laa...we love Takuya Kimura...and many many others...and we listen to SMAP...Abie, me, you and Shamon...my room is full of japanese VCDs - even rent it out to UTPians (kadar RM1 per day - gile baik aku ni)...and bilik gile Abie and me ade poster besar Taku and GTO...huahuahua...tak boleh blah...

and in UTP also, Farah mendengar rentetan kisah semberono aku ngan #2 a.k.a. Abah (dh kawen sekrg tp baik la ngan saya sampai sekrg)...no heart feeling...skandal tuh...jumpe pun time Farah nikah...hehe...ade gak main2 time Mai....Mai, aku dh bgtau kau ni....ya ampunn...hehe...Aliza memang sweet lah...Abah pun sweet gak...'Better Man'...nyanyi tuh dlm hujan time me tgh marah...

and then, came the time we're in the same group for FYPDP - Final Year Plant Design Project...our leader is Daud - menguji kesabaran tahap Gaban...and we had Nhung also in our team of 4 members...alhamdulillah, we had 2 perfectionist planners - Farah dan sayalah kann...and guess who's our main advisor - Dr Hilmi tuuu....aiyaa...that time, he was our faculty's head...every week laa kan nk meeting...Farah and me aced our assignment...yeay...it was a 6-credits course (apsal laa degree lain FYP dieorg 4-credits je: ini diriku tak faham)....Farah and me got A...Nhung and Daud, i wished them well...ku kejam kot kasi assessment kat dieorg....alamak, blom mintak maaf lagi....tapinye, itu kejujuran saya pada ketika itu...

Farah and me suka menyanyi...Farah suaranya sedap...Aliza pulak tau banyak lagu...ada rupanya gambar kami mengonquer karok di rumah Yus...CikYus ingat tak?!! sile jangan kasi mic kepada Farah dan Aliza...sampai abes laa tak tukar tangan orang lain...tapinye, CikYus pun same....gile nyanyi...

maka dengan ini, itulah Allah jodohkan diriku menjadi pengapitmu - aku dah apit ko sekian lame rupenye...will love you always...insyaAllah...

ooo...satu lagi yang mungkin ramai tak tau...Farah laa tukang balut buku-buku ilmiah saya...tiap2 semester OK...dan, buku2 saya bukannya sikit...Farah....sekarang ku balut sendiri...huhuhu...and kubalutkan juge buku hadiah utk sahabat kite tu...

feedback semalam:

sape pilih lagu-lagu ni?!!

mestilah Farah and aku...

hoho...padanlaa gile retro rock lame2...
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amboiii...aliza....

biaselah...ku watak utama... (siyesly, saya cantikkk semalam)
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sedap ko makan ekk...

iye saye...
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mengangkat tangan memanggil dayang2 meja santapan dengan jari comelku terarah ke pingganku yg agak2 hampir licin...

akak nak clearkan ke?!!

ehh, tak, saye nak nasi tambah ni... (sebabnye pengantin punye dh clear)

eeeiii...akulaa pengapit paling carefree...

terime kasih Farah sebab jadi kawan aku...

...tidak berkadaran langsung...

it does hurt...

so, i choose to run...
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i won't ask thinking i wouldn't want to accept any answers...
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ya Allah, i am being unjust...please forgive all and me...aminn...

...aku hidup...

berkat rahmat cintaNya...

Allahuakbar...berilah aku keseimbangan dalam penilaian...

...bukan harta,bukan nama,bukan rupa - tapi lampu...

aliza, korang ni kelakarlah...

ehh...tak...saye...masih...hurmm...

i was left speechless and so, we giggled on the phone...

it was Z...hey, i miss you and Sya'ban never meet me yet...

guava pickles for me?!! yeay...thanks...hope to see you then...

and for HIm too?!! naa...but so to recall, exactly i do remember last time we requested for the same...hehe...

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last thursday, i was ber'keping'...

and F touched my heart...i was frail...

my cheeks felt warm with a single 'mengalir' tear (coming from both eyes) - and so i got 2 streak damp lines...

oo honeybee F...thanks...it was wayyyy beyond what i deserve...i really appreciate it...

the moment...and...the gift...

batal.jgn ngade2.

terlaa tadi, x nanges pun, mengalir je...pastu kite lap ngan tisu..ade hukum x ni?

takdelah

ok, kite maafkan diri sdiri

i'll remember this: beli je laa, nnt awak sedih

simpan, kite kawen, kalu ade rezeki, awak bole kasi kite best2

next thing i know - dengar lagu ini

haha...pengsan laa kite...

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aku risau laa future aku ni...ko cool gile...

x yah laa risau yg bukan-bukan...ikhlas...rezeki tu subjektif...

N, you're still young...don't stop...

and belajar kereta, please...

aku nak jadi nurse...

haa?!! ehh, sejak bile...membazir laa...baik ko jadi cikgu...ajar english...

thanks N...lucky in having you sesating Ryan and me...

IKEA, here we come...huuu...

sengal laa ko...

maap...aku x nampak and aku x leh bace...

sikit punye jauh patah Damansara Utama...haha...

Mont Kiara, Hartamas...tunnel Penchala tu...

hehe...siap Seputeh...

and your salty wish - sampai kite ke Bombay Point...kekekekekeke...

kalu best, aku nk beli barang2 yg memudahkan mak aku...

my garment steamer - will let you test it at iris OK :)

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adik saya ni...kalu boleh, mak saye nak laa saye yang dulu...tp apakan daya...buat saya agak sedih...dan mama...

ooo I...relax my dearie sweetie...

saye dh stop sekejap cari rumah ni...W je beriye...and korang x tau W dah btunang...ni auntie saye yg bgtau...

mmg x nak bgtau kot pakcik tu (this is P)

anyway, to W, congrats...alhamdulillah, just knew it from FB...

L to P: heh, sapa chipsmore hang?

P: takdelah...

oo melawat kawasan...nice house P...

sayangnya hang nak kasi sewa...

rumahku iris cantik...yeay...

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still teman D lagi?

yup, kite kat Kota Dsara lagi

awaknye jgn putus asa tau

yes M, u too take care...i LOVE...always...

i will, too

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Assalamualaikum, ade satu lampu kite pecah, mbawa maksud ape2 tak? maksudnye, kite stres, sile abaikan pesanan ini, gud nite

Haha. Xde maksud ape2 lar. Dh xde rezeki u lah tu. Nite.

and ku jatuh hati sebab lampu - sampai sekarang ingat starter...lalalalala

p/s: nak refresh tak?!! huhu... cerite saye kat sini -->...a big Step...

...sampaikan nanti...

ku menunggu getar hatiku
anganku hanya untukmu
‘tuk bersama selamanya
kita berdua

kau selalu mengisi hariku
dengan canda dan tawamu
kurasakan bahagiaku
untukmu selalu

ku berjanji karna cintaku
ku berharap karna kasihmu
selamanya dan tak akan pernah berpisah
sampaikan nanti~~~

kau selalu mengisi hariku
dengan canda dan tawamu
kurasakan bahagiaku
untukmu selalu

ku berjanji karna cintaku
ku berharap karna kasihmu
selamanya dan tak akan pernah berpisah
sampaikan nanti~~~

meraihmu…menggapaimu~~~

(ku berjanji karna cintaku)
karna cinta
(ku berharap karna kasihmu)
karna kasih
ku berjanji karna cintaku
ku berharap karna kasihmu
selamanya dan tak akan pernah berpisah
sampaikan nanti~~~

pernah berpisah...

sampaikan nanti~~~

...iriStatic...Heeee...

ku masak-masak...dengan kasih dan sayang dan kasih dan sayang...

ku hepi...

thanks to all my lovely girlfriends and boyfriends who dropped by my kampung home last Sunday...

had soooo much fun updating, sharing and caring and eating and eating...

my sweet guests...alhamdulillah...never been great...tak putus2 sampai ke malam...really appreciate kamu-kamu semua...terime kasih sangat-sangat...

friends who lost on the way to and fro - it was my bad...petrol station landmark was a disaster...my kampung home had 3 different Shell aligned with 3 different Petronas...and confusing traffic light junction with sideways "big" tyres service centres...Carrefour Klang would be the best bet...huu...

i thank all of you for your patience and persistence...really...thanks yaa!

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dia datang :)

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ku budak kampung yang tak tau main GPS...

3° 3' 39" N 101° 25' 59" E gps location umah u.

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iris = work in progress...

1- done with grille work...management approving only 2 designs...i chose the standard straight pattern but mine would be with a twist ( i opt for thicker bars and hope for no violations) elleh...kalu bole rasa hati, sudahnya ku ingin kaler pink...tak kire...tak kire...

2- cornice is on the way - pick a simple rose pattern ( i asked for roses but i'm not sure what my contractor is telling)

saya bagi akak yg putih laa, sikit bunga sikit daun, sebab akak saya macam tau...

huu...mind reader tu...

3- hacking and wiring complete package with latest black console sockets and plugs - can't imagine tp haruslah gaya moden... btw, my hall is classic contemporary to be matched with urban metro dining area...

4- i spent most on kitchen appliances and cabinet - i love to cook and i love to eat...and i won't let kawan2 lapar...i agreed on my dream candy kitchen...sooo cute...sangatlah berupe saya...purpley-pinkish or pinky-purplish?!!huuu...same je kott...comell...comell...

5- kamar beraduku - purple-black classical charm...calm and peaceful...

6- painting job - interior walls with 3 segregations [Hall/Kitchen: Milan (feature) + all around Fair Lady; Master Bedroom: Victorian Purple (feature) + all around Roma; Room 3: Victorian Purple (next phase - walk-in closet to be linked with Master Bedroom); Room 2 + Room 4: Polo (next phase - Room 2 will be prayer room cum library cum study/work room)]

7- elegant lightings and cooling fans...about 8 decorative lights altogether...

8- curtain - bought string curtain for balcony sliding door only...and without rod yet...waiting for cornice line up...and haven't decided for the other window panes...roman blind for kitchen, maybe...and blinds for the rest too...ermm..this can wait...

iris wishlist - next phase project: Room 2 and Room 3 as mentioned; upgrading baths (Rain Shower system); wooden laminated flooring; shoe rack perhaps with bench; and balcony garden...

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sungguhlaa saya sibuk...ya Allah, bantulah aku...cukupkanlaa keperluanku...aminn...